A church or community center?

Dec 2012
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A couple of years ago, I considered going to an UUC (Universal Unitarian Church). I attended for a short time, but I failed to connect with anyone and the drive was rather long, I soon stopped going. I now live in a different town and am considering trying another UUC. My old reservations are returning, and they reminded me of a conversation I had with my cousins. When I told them I was thinking of joining an UUC, I repeated all of the good I had heard about UUC and carefully wove in my own apprehensions. The conversation eased none of those apprehensions, to say the least, but it did raise an interesting question. What defines a church?

Despite facilitating religious discussion and various forms of worship, my cousins argued that the description of the UUC sounded more like a community/learning center than an actual "church". We talked about the social gap I experienced when I left the Christian faith, and we speculated if the UUC would be the answer for that problem.

During our discussion, I thought back to all of the churches I had attended as a Christian and the way those churches evolved over time. The Cumberland Presbyterian Church from my childhood added a community center. The Baptist church from my childhood built a new gym. The interdenominational church I attended was enormous. It had a theatre, gym, large sanctuary. It was unlike anything I ever experienced before. In all honesty, the UUC reminded me of a more liberal interdenominational church.

I think the difference in my cousins' opinion reflected in their speculation of unity. They viewed churches as a unified vision under one God. The UUC was a collective gathering.

How do you define a church from a community center? Do facilities play a role in your view?
 
Jan 2012
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Texas
A couple of years ago, I considered going to an UUC (Universal Unitarian Church). I attended for a short time, but I failed to connect with anyone and the drive was rather long, I soon stopped going. I now live in a different town and am considering trying another UUC. My old reservations are returning, and they reminded me of a conversation I had with my cousins. When I told them I was thinking of joining an UUC, I repeated all of the good I had heard about UUC and carefully wove in my own apprehensions. The conversation eased none of those apprehensions, to say the least, but it did raise an interesting question. What defines a church?

Despite facilitating religious discussion and various forms of worship, my cousins argued that the description of the UUC sounded more like a community/learning center than an actual "church". We talked about the social gap I experienced when I left the Christian faith, and we speculated if the UUC would be the answer for that problem.

During our discussion, I thought back to all of the churches I had attended as a Christian and the way those churches evolved over time. The Cumberland Presbyterian Church from my childhood added a community center. The Baptist church from my childhood built a new gym. The interdenominational church I attended was enormous. It had a theatre, gym, large sanctuary. It was unlike anything I ever experienced before. In all honesty, the UUC reminded me of a more liberal interdenominational church.

I think the difference in my cousins' opinion reflected in their speculation of unity. They viewed churches as a unified vision under one God. The UUC was a collective gathering.

How do you define a church from a community center? Do facilities play a role in your view?

The way I define a church isn't a building, it isn't a religion, it is in fact a community. The word community means common unity. Church is the house of God, if God dwells within me, and the others around me, and we discuss faith and God then that is the church. In my thoughts any way. I worship through practice, attempt to be as God is, and follow his teachings, sure I fail, but I get back up and try again. So my body is Gods temple.

But church in the dictionary sense means house of worship. So yes all churches are churches. Certain Christians think that there brand of Christianity is the only kind that is right. I tend to not talk religion with folks like that.
 
Oct 2012
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Louisville, Ky
The way I define a church isn't a building, it isn't a religion, it is in fact a community....snip....

Well put in my opinion. The only place one calls a church I have ever felt truly comfortable, was a Unitarian Congregation of people creating community. I think I actually heard the word "God" four times in two years...and those few times had nothing to do with the book(s).

Most here know my stance on Religion...which is unfavorable. This does not equate to an avoidance of Church, as there are wonderful experiences to be had with the people who attend.
 
Jan 2012
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Texas
Well put in my opinion. The only place one calls a church I have ever felt truly comfortable, was a Unitarian Congregation of people creating community. I think I actually heard the word "God" four times in two years...and those few times had nothing to do with the book(s).

Most here know my stance on Religion...which is unfavorable. This does not equate to an avoidance of Church, as there are wonderful experiences to be had with the people who attend.

I never have attended the unitarian church, it may be tom to look it up. Seems like the positive part of christianity, and the abandoning of alienation, but then again it is called unitarian kind of the opposite of alienation
 
May 2009
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Whenever I come to a place where there are a lot of churches, I take comfort knowing that there's enough sin about to satisfy everyone.
 
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