Why is it that....

Feb 2012
536
6
England
...no matter how often it happens,you can look forward to something for a long time and then when it arrives its over with so quickly and no matter how lovely it was, you're left feeling bereft?
 
May 2012
215
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The motherland
It's natural and I always feel that way when Wimbledon is over. Despite Sharapova's early exit from the tournament, there was the drama surrounding Murray this year and I have to wait another year for him to grab the Grand Slam title. The Olympic Games are coming up in a week and expectations are running high but everyone would feel depressed in September no matter how many medals Britain may win thanks to a home advantage.
 
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myp

Jan 2009
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...no matter how often it happens,you can look forward to something for a long time and then when it arrives its over with so quickly and no matter how lovely it was, you're left feeling bereft?

I think as ThirdTerm alluded to, expectations play a role. I know that when I hype something up too much, I usually end up disappointed, even if it was great just because I expected so much. Keeping expectations realistic or even slightly low in some circumstances (such as for movies) might make the experience more fulfilling.
 
Dec 2012
7
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Vancouver, Canada
I feel that way whenever I finish a good book. I put a book on hold at the library, wait a few week's anticipating reading it. It arrives, I get it home and start reading it. I finish it in only a few hours. What I thought was going to be a three day journey, is over before I began. Feels like I lost my best friend.
 
May 2012
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I know this feeling. I play in a lot of competitions and look forward to them yet when they are over I feel let down in a way regardless if i win or not :)
 
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