There is no such thing; you can
pretend all you want, but a round peg fitting in a square hole still violates the laws of physics.
Seems like you are the one pretending.
Pretending legalities don't matter in legal status, pretending physics has something to do with law, I mean if gay people defied gravity your nonsense about laws of physics would be sound.
It seems that the illusion you are under is that there is some other force more powerful than man that can render man's laws irrelevant and has some opinion about how people select their romantic partner.
More powerful than man, huh yep laws of physics are though I am not familiar with any physicist that created a theory that homosexuality violates, feel free to enlighten me as to which law of physics is broken by same sex marriage or homosexuality.
Laws of physics having an opinion about something that doesn'thave much to do with physics, that sounds like a god concept.
Ssm doesn't violate laws of physics, it is really strictly civil. And as long as the government is pretending with me, it's all reality. Pretending that whatever the government says isn't law is frankly borderline delusional.