At the risk of upsetting you delicate feelings I will try to give you an answer to some of your questions.
Since I am a person not a machine I do not require programming. Since education is done by people it is not always correct. Teachers, and professors have their own faults and agendas. They are no more perfect than you or I.
If you think praying is going to heal you and a doctor tells you they have a cure and gives you pills, if you think you both are as valid then you will end up dead.
You mentioned that there are facts and lies and right and wrong in the world, well some people have more facts then others.
You are a human and you DO require programming, just like you learned how a car works you have to LEARN things, that comes from either commited studying on your part (through information given by other people) or ideally, from an expert/teacher.
Pretending that you or I are just as smart and stupid as anyone else is silly and its what your line of thinking ends at here.
The fact is you do need training/education/to learn and thats part of life, learning things will always be filtered through the experience of being human but so what? everything we do is filtered through the experience of being human.
As far as torturing them. I really don't care either way.
If you really "dont care" then you also fit the description of a sociopath, now I doubt that you actually dont care at all, I think in your life its easy for you to ignore the subject and you probably havent given it a lot of thought.
If they can dish it out give it back in kind. I am no "monster", I am a son, a father and husband.
I never said you were a monster but I do have to point out that every person that has done monsterous things tends to be HUMAN and tends to have parents and perhaps siblings and perhaps be a father/mother, not sure what other monsters you think anyone can reference? bears maybe?
But you better believe if I meet the monster they will think I am a monster.
So your not a monster but you are capable of being a monster, one more step and you might be in someone elses shoes?
And yes I have meet the monster in my own life. I have been shot and I have shot. I will be butt-wipe to no man. To cower to a monster and not deal with them would be dragging me down.
Pride and defense etc has nothing to do with torture or killing anyone, if you kill someone as a last resort to save yourself then ur justified, if you kill someone to save face then your a cold blooded murderer, im sure you would agree with that?
"We need to use our heads more and not our emotions so much". Why would I ever want to become some emotionless glob of flesh passing through this world. Yes emotions hurt. I still feel the pain of my oldest daughters death. But I have had to deal with it. That is just my opinion, not asking anyone to agree.
I never said emotionless, we are human, the good, the bad and the ugly, but sometimes our guts have shit for brains (movie reference that works too well in this post).
Noone is talking about not feeling sad or angry etc but we need to use our heads more, having the state kill someone isent justice, theres no two ways about it, like I said, we can either say "so their blood is on my hands, im ok with that, I dont care if they die" or we have to be BETTER, your ok with it, thats an answer, not very evolved in my opinion but at least thats a response, I cant fault you for being honest but I can for being short sighted.