so when did you discover, realize, or otherwise come to understand about death?:skull: was there a specifc incident that ocurred? death of relative, etc.? How old were you and how did it hit you when you realized the ramifications?
For me, i had several instances that brought it home as a child.
1. age 3 or 4. i had captured a grasshopper under a styrofoam cup. forgot about it then later jumped out of a tree and landed on the cup (partially intentionally) when i looked under the lil fella had passed. i cried at what i had done.
2. age 4. watching tv i learned that the real smokey bear had died. somehow i instantly realized that this meant one day my parents would die. i was very upset about this realization.
3. age 5. grandfather died. i remember witnessing how upset others were at this and the sense of loss and finality that seemed present with them.
For me, i had several instances that brought it home as a child.
1. age 3 or 4. i had captured a grasshopper under a styrofoam cup. forgot about it then later jumped out of a tree and landed on the cup (partially intentionally) when i looked under the lil fella had passed. i cried at what i had done.
2. age 4. watching tv i learned that the real smokey bear had died. somehow i instantly realized that this meant one day my parents would die. i was very upset about this realization.
3. age 5. grandfather died. i remember witnessing how upset others were at this and the sense of loss and finality that seemed present with them.