Elderly Gay Couple Forcibly Separated, Abused, Robbed By County Officials

Mar 2010
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Clay and his partner of 20 years, Harold, lived in California. Clay and Harold made diligent efforts to protect their legal rights, and had their legal paperwork in place?wills, powers of attorney, and medical directives, all naming each other. Harold was 88 years old and in frail medical condition, but still living at home with Clay, 77, who was in good health.
One evening, Harold fell down the front steps of their home and was taken to the hospital. Based on their medical directives alone, Clay should have been consulted in Harold?s care from the first moment. Tragically, county and health care workers instead refused to allow Clay to see Harold in the hospital. The county then ultimately went one step further by isolating the couple from each other, placing the men in separate nursing homes. Ignoring Clay?s significant role in Harold?s life, the county continued to treat Harold like he had no family and went to court seeking the power to make financial decisions on his behalf. Outrageously, the county represented to the judge that Clay was merely Harold?s ?roommate.? The court denied their efforts, but did grant the county limited access to one of Harold?s bank accounts to pay for his care.

What happened next is even more chilling: without authority, without determining the value of Clay and Harold?s possessions accumulated over the course of their 20 years together or making any effort to determine which items belonged to whom, the county took everything Harold and Clay owned and auctioned off all of their belongings. Adding further insult to grave injury, the county removed Clay from his home and confined him to a nursing home against his will. The county workers then terminated Clay and Harold's lease and surrendered the home they had shared for many years to the landlord.

Three months after he was hospitalized, Harold died in the nursing home. Because of the county?s actions, Clay missed the final months he should have had with his partner of 20 years. Compounding this tragedy, Clay has literally nothing left of the home he had shared with Harold or the life he was living up until the day that Harold fell, because he has been unable to recover any of his property.


Again, remember that they "had their legal paperwork in place?wills, powers of attorney, and medical directives, all naming each other."

http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/ar...y-separated-abused-robbed-by-county-officials

This is outrageous. Thanks, conservatives, for lobbying against equal protection under the law. Prop. 8 (California) made it impossible for them to be considered family.

With the help of a dedicated and persistent court-appointed attorney, Anne Dennis of Santa Rosa, Clay was finally released from the nursing home. Ms. Dennis, along with Stephen O'Neill and Margaret Flynn of Tarkington, O'Neill, Barrack & Chong, now represent Clay in a lawsuit against the county, the auction company, and the nursing home, with technical assistance from NCLR.

Still, I doubt that even a settlement in the millions would placate Clay, seeing as the state denied him from even seeing his partner during the last few months of his life.
 
Apr 2010
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This chilled me to the bone. What was wrong with them? Do they feel no sympathy at all? I presume they did this because they were gay, which just makes it worse. You shouldn't treat people differently because of their sexual orientation. I wish best of luck to 's. Dennis, along with Stephen O'Neill and Margaret Flynn of Tarkington, O'Neill, Barrack & Chong' and their pursuit to recover any ounce of decency Clay may have left.
 
Jul 2009
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Port St. Lucie
Stupid theocrats trying to force religion on our secular republic!
 
Jul 2009
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Port St. Lucie
Would you agree that marriage primarily a religious institution that carries with it legal privileges as well?

Unfortunately. The fact is marriage is a civil institution with the original goal of uniting families/countries (which is why everyone become in-laws, legal siblings). Later love joined diplomacy as a reason to marry (as shown by Roman same-sex marriage records). Not until the Christians and Muslims and their various off-shoots did religion become an issue. As they make up most of the human population, their hijacking of the institution from civil authority has largely gone unnoticed.

Ether outlaw marriage as a part of civil law or reaffirm it's secular heritage, you can't have it both ways as the OP proves, it counteracts itself.
 
Dec 2009
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under a rock, under a rock in Oklahoma
They're gay!

Clay and his partner of 20 years, Harold, lived in California. Clay and Harold made diligent efforts to protect their legal rights, and had their legal paperwork in place?wills, powers of attorney, and medical directives, all naming each other. Harold was 88 years old and in frail medical condition, but still living at home with Clay, 77, who was in good health.
One evening, Harold fell down the front steps of their home and was taken to the hospital. Based on their medical directives alone, Clay should have been consulted in Harold?s care from the first moment. Tragically, county and health care workers instead refused to allow Clay to see Harold in the hospital. The county then ultimately went one step further by isolating the couple from each other, placing the men in separate nursing homes. Ignoring Clay?s significant role in Harold?s life, the county continued to treat Harold like he had no family and went to court seeking the power to make financial decisions on his behalf. Outrageously, the county represented to the judge that Clay was merely Harold?s ?roommate.? The court denied their efforts, but did grant the county limited access to one of Harold?s bank accounts to pay for his care.

What happened next is even more chilling: without authority, without determining the value of Clay and Harold?s possessions accumulated over the course of their 20 years together or making any effort to determine which items belonged to whom, the county took everything Harold and Clay owned and auctioned off all of their belongings. Adding further insult to grave injury, the county removed Clay from his home and confined him to a nursing home against his will. The county workers then terminated Clay and Harold's lease and surrendered the home they had shared for many years to the landlord.

Three months after he was hospitalized, Harold died in the nursing home. Because of the county?s actions, Clay missed the final months he should have had with his partner of 20 years. Compounding this tragedy, Clay has literally nothing left of the home he had shared with Harold or the life he was living up until the day that Harold fell, because he has been unable to recover any of his property.

Again, remember that they " had their legal paperwork in place?wills, powers of attorney, and medical directives, all naming each other. "

http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/ar...y-separated-abused-robbed-by-county-officials

This is outrageous. Thanks, conservatives, for lobbying against equal protection under the law. Prop. 8 (California) made it impossible for them to be considered family.

With the help of a dedicated and persistent court-appointed attorney, Anne Dennis of Santa Rosa, Clay was finally released from the nursing home. Ms. Dennis, along with Stephen O'Neill and Margaret Flynn of Tarkington, O'Neill, Barrack & Chong, now represent Clay in a lawsuit against the county, the auction company, and the nursing home, with technical assistance from NCLR.

Still, I doubt that even a settlement in the millions would placate Clay, seeing as the state denied him from even seeing his partner during the last few months of his life.

In most cases, persons put into a nursing home have to relinquish their property to the state. This offsets the Medical costs, and the expense of a nursing home.

I'm a staunch conservative, and I do not and will not recognize the marriage of two souls of the same sex.
 
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