Some of these people don't know anyone gay because the gay people they come into contact with keep it a secret. I think it is safe to say everyone knows gay people. But does everyone know who is gay? I actually don't think my mother would know gay if she was in a room full. I tried talking to her about that a few times. She just says "ah they don't do that".

Now with strokes and other illness there is no need to upset her. She sure does not understand my son/daughter-in-law. She says, "he needs to dress like a man and go back to work".

He would be real popular back in uniform at the detention center.