Nemo... you know what happened, thank you for sharing your knowledge. My knowledge is much more modest, but I will share my opinions anyway...
The American dream was largely buying a house. For the entire history of this nation, it has been the scenario where you had to come up with 20% down to even think about buying a house, thereby putting it out of the reach of all but those who earned enough to save a considerable sum of money. Those are the people who qualified. Those are the people who seldom defaulted.
Now, take that scenario and change it so that banks can bury toxic loans by off-loading them as 'derivatives'. They are now making money off volume, irrespective of the quality of their loans. They are insulated all of a sudden from the responsibility to qualify loans.
Okay, now look at the same scenario from the buyer's perspective. They have been saving meager amounts of money as best they can in pursuit of the American dream. A slimy banker now tells them that they no longer need a 20% down payment, they no longer need even a good work history, and often, they no longer need any employment at all.
Who got hurt by this situation? The irresponsible borrower? No, he simply went back to his meager existence. The banker? No, he got a golden parachute, and went on to upper management. The real people that got hurt were those that were personally responsible, got buried under the housing collapse, and now are under-water. THOSE people were hard-working middle class Americans that made a large down-payment. Those were the ones that had a job, were not irresponsible, were not stupid. Many were even upper middle class that were sand-bagged by this banking/realty collapse.
Myp, you really think that everyone involved should take responsibility equally? Obviously, you escaped the carnage. I'm happy for you. You must either be lucky, rich, or clever. Maybe all three. Congrats.